I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling . – Philippians 3:14 NLT
So one way or the other, you are presently single.
By definition of the world, meaning you do not have a soul mate, a spouse, not married, alone, the definitive words go on and on.
It has generally also been coined as a “waiting” on the Lord to bring to you or bring you to your better half.
Waiting on the Lord in bringing you into His perfect will is the best position to take while you are single.
But are you waiting at a stand still?
Most people are not waiting, but actually stopping or have totally stopped.
Singles have stopped enjoying a good laugh, company, business idea ventures, education in improving skills and intellect, totally stopped trying!
Do not do that to yourself. While you are waiting, keep moving and improving. Do not stop.
If you miss it at a point, brush it off, learn from it and try again, but try this time by ‘waiting’ to hear God guide you, then go for it.
This is what waiting means. it means waiting to hear what He has to say about what you are thinking to do.
“Trust in the Lord with all your hear and lean not on your own understanding. In all your your ways acknowledge Him (that is, ask Him an wait on His guidance, before you decide what to do.) and He shall direct your path. Do not be wise in your own eyes ” – Proverbs 3: 5-7 NKJV
Being single does not mean you should put a full stop to your life.
So go ahead and live while you wait on Him, do not stop living.
Cause, in Christ being “single” doesn’t mean you are alone. He is right there beside you.